Who was Tammy Cochran?

From Olathe PD: Olathe Police Detectives have identified the victim of the homicide first reported on 03/05/2008 in which a burned body was discovered at 8255 S. Gardner Road, Olathe, KS.

The victim has been identified as Tammy K. Cochran, a 37-year-old white female. Her family has been notified.

Olathe Police Detectives are involved in a continuing investigation with this case with the assistance from the Johnson County, Kansas, Sheriff's Office, Leawood Police Department and Lenexa Police Department. No suspects are in custody. Anyone with information regarding this investigation is encouraged to call the Olathe Police Department at (913) 971-7455 or the TIPS Hotline at (816) 474-8477.

Comments

[John Boy]

Originally thought to be 16 - 30 ? Quite a bit of difference in age.

[G]

Weird case....jealous lover maybe?

Keep us updated on this one, James...got a feeling it's going to get weird.

[jeano]

Wonder why the need to burn the body? Not like they don't have ways to id a corpse anymore. Evil.

[kcskip]

Actually I can see how they guessed so wrong on the age. She does look a little younger than her years, and being so small and petite would make you think it was a younger person. And if she was burned beyond recognition they wouldn't have much to go on. HOWEVER... My daughter works VERY close to where the body was found, and is a perfect match to the description they gave. I was a little freaked out when I heard the story yesterday, and called my daughter immediately, even though it was early morning. She snapped at me for waking her up, but I"ve never been so happy to be yelled at in my life. But I now have a heavy heart for this womans family, and I hope they find the monster who did this.

[aqua]

useless scum either dose the victims with clorox or burn the bodies to try to remove any residual evidence that could be used to convict them.

[Nick]

Wonder why the need to burn the body? Not like they don't have ways to id a corpse anymore. Evil.- Jeano

They are not burning them to prevent ID. They do it to destroy DNA, scent, and trace evidence.

[G]

There is another reason people will burn a body: Rage.

That's why I immediately went to a jilted lover of some kind. Few killers will have the inclination and WILL to burn a body like that. They know that dental records will still most likely lead to ID.

Thats why I think this case may get weirder...

[sanguine]

Her boyfriend was a black guy who was both her drug dealer and pimp. He got her hooked on drugs along with several other white woman and he pimped them out and kept them in line with drugs and abuse. Such women usually end up dead while the boyfriend turns other girls. It is the biggest unreported news in America's social environment. The media doesnt like to report that aspect of the crimes but certainly would if it was white men exploited black women.

[Juls]

sanguine - do you know that for a fact or just speculating?

Do anyone know if she had children? Sad what an addiction can lead to.

[VM]

I went to high school with Tammy K.Cochran and graduated with her in 1988. I haven't seen her since then, but did remember the name and face. I am saddened to hear of her horrible death and pray for her and her family.

[sanguine]

I know that for a fact....I know her son and ex-husband.

[Juls]

sanguine - does she have more then one son? one of them named dominic?

VM - what high school?

this is a very sad story for the family?

[bigblock]

I used to live 4 or 5 houses down the street from Tammy. I also attended Shawnee Mission North high school with her. I have not seen Tammy in a number of years. I was saddened to hear of her tragic death. My heart goes out to her family. I urge anyone with any information to report what they know so that the person(s) responsible for this crime can be taken off of the streets. Think of it this way...........Next time it could very well be one of our loved ones.

Do we know without a shadow of a doubt that Tammy was involved with a pimp and strung out on drugs? If so, that is where the investigation should certainly start. Hopefully someone out there can confirm this tidbit of information.

G's comment from March 7th seems to have a racial undertone in it. This is a tragic death regrdless of who the perpertrator(s) are. Would it have been any less hurtful to her family if her boyfriend were a white, hispanic or asian pimp? There is no place for that. Now if you can provide the name of the ex boyfriend that could certainly be useful information here.

[t]

To Sanguine, No one forced tammy to do the drugs, No one pinned her down and forced meth up her nose, she knew what she was doing. I'm sure she didn't know she was going to be killed and set on fire, I hope they find the guy whether he's white or black, how do you know he's a black guy?

[Q]

I knew Tammy and she was a good person. Addiction is a thing that most all of us know someone battling. The media is starting to run her mugshots and letting everyone know about her demons. If it helps catch the killer then more power to them, but I think that they should let her have her dignity however little may have been left.

[A]

Does anyone know if there will be funeral services. I went to school with Tammy too and hadn't seen her in years! The memories I have for her and her entire family are very good ones. Due to her addiction, Tammy most likely died years ago and the Tammy that died recently hopefully is in peace now.

[j]

i knew Tammy , havnt seen here in 20ish years. i do want to say she was a very sweet girl. the smile you see in the photo on this page is genuine i remember it well. we all grow up and apart but she was my friend and it realy hurts to know she was taken advantage of and treated this way. to her family, there isnt words to say how sorry i feel this happened. i hope there is a service i can attend.

[PH]

Tammy was my sweet beautiful daughter-in-law. Please don't judge her by those horrible mug shots. She was caught up in something she had no control over and it led to her tragic death. All of us who were and always will be her family, though in-laws, are mourning her untimely loss. Our hearts and prayers go out to her parents, grandparents, brother, friends, and, of course her precious son. Rest in peace, darling girl. We will miss you always...

[please sign your comments]

I knew tammy as I was a customer of hers. The Tammy I remember was a wonderful girl very devoted to her son and to see how tragically her life ended is so sad. I pray they find the MONSTER Who did this. God speed Tammy your misery is over my condolence to your family.

[x]

To the mil... those mug shots are not tammy, it's an empty shell, no life in her eyes, she was such a lively person, full of laughter and fun. I hope they find the person who did this before he does it to some other woman. May peace be with the family, how horrible.

[Q]

I have had so many friends that went to school with us call and talk of great memories of Tammy. I pray for her family and pray for strength to carry them through these hard times. She would have had her 20 yr. high school reunion this October. So sad that she was taken away!

[achy breaky fool]

strange that the olathe pd story did not even mention whether or not tammy cochran was from olathe or anything else that might id her better. there are a lot of attractive blonds around. if for instance they said she was a hair stylist something might ring a bell for someone who saw or heard something. but as in the kelsey case they must like keeping information close to the chest.

[o]

It's really scarey that the person who did this to tammy is still walking the streets... and probably in Johnson County somewhere as we speak...
I hope they find who did this and FAST.
My prayers to Tammy's family.

[SMG]

I knew Tammy as well. She befriended me in the 7th grade and we were the closest friends for a short while. Seemed to drift apart by end of school yr. My mom called me when they identified her and it is a great tragedy. We had so much fun and she was a blessing in my life at a trying time. I know she is with God now and my prayers and thoughts go to her family and friends. I also pray the police catch the monster who did this to her and bring them to justice.

[wcf]

I met Tammy in 1994 and became friends with her, but haven't seen her for about 3 yrs now. She was funny, beautiful, strong, and could make you laugh so hard. She loved her son so much, and her family and friends, and her animals. Her eyes sparkled and noone could tell a story like her-I used to ask her to retell stories over and over because she was so damn funny. The world will never be the same without her. Please pray whoever did this will be found and made to pay the price for tossing her aside like a piece of trash.

[h]

I have known Tami since 2nd grade. We lost touch about 2 years ago and I am so sad about that. She was a good friend and I have so many memories of her and of us. She was a character and will be forever missed. My heart goes out to her family. She loved her son so much. I am stunned at how fast the addiction got ahold of her and took her from us. Someone out there knows who did this to her and the truth will come out. That monster will pay. They will get him for you Tami.

[ph]

Tammy's funeral was private, a graveside service with her family and closest friends attending. God speed, my precious girl. You can rest in peace now. Again, we will remember you always.

[j]

Im sad that I didnt' get to attend the funeral. I will miss her.

[h]

I too am very sorry I wasn't able to attend the funeral, but certainly understand the families need for privacy at this time. I would like to visit her grave, does anyone know where she was buried?

[J]

Godspeed my friend! I was best of friends with Tammy in gradeschool along with two other wonderful girls, we were quite the tribe I must say! Tammy's Father and Mother loved her so dearly and her brother looked up to her with so much love I remember. Let's not forget D. She was one of a kind, and LOVED Tammy, like no one could. When you are a apart of that, one never forgets what a difference she made, especially to me and in my life. I regret not keeping in touch because she truly was a bright light on so many different occasions while growing up. To her family, I am so sorry this has happened to your darling girl. To Tammy, you were always such a bright & shining star, you taught many of us so much. No matter what, that can't be taken away from you. You will live on in all the heartsung memories we all have for you. Tammy you will not be forgotten. I will always celebrate knowing you and your family. With Love.

[h]

Does anyone know where she was buried? I would have liked to attend the service but understand the families need for privacy, especially with the media involved. I would like to at least be able to drop some flowers at her grave and say a goodbye.

[j]

There are a quite a few out here that would like to offer support and say goodbye. The families privacy is most needed, we know that. I will miss her and wish there was something I could give back. A card, flowers to the grave, memories to the family, you name it and many of us will be there, in a heartbeat.

[ph]

I'm sorry I don't know at this time where she is buried but I will find the location as soon as I can and post it, if her family doesn't mind. There seem to be so many who want to honor her in some way and mark her passing. Tammy would have appreciated that, I'm sure. Just remember her as she was, please.

[h]

Kelsie,
As you can tell by reading this there are MANY people who loved and cared about your aunt and our hearts go out to you, your family and her family. I agree that she should be able to rest in peace. It is very unfortunate that her mug shots were put out there. Everyone makes mistakes and we all know what a great person she was. The past 2 years did not define who Tammy was. The 35 years before did. I am praying for you and your family and also praying that the person that did this to her is found and prosecuted and spend the rest of his/her life in prison.

[j]

I'm sorry Kelsie that you lost your loving aunt. But most on this post also loved your mother in thier own way, I did, We had a blast together and my heart feels hollow about what happened to her. I do respect the family's privacy about the buriel, they've had enough to deal with their daughter plastered all over the news.

[trm]

Kelsie,
I can see you are in a deep amount of pain. I would only suggest that before you post again you make sure your parents see what you are posting. There are details of Tammy's murder that have not been released to the public and sometimes the police do that on purpose. I don't know if they would want you posting that she was beaten and strangled, as that was not on the news reports. You may want to tell an adult that you posted that if they are not aware. Again, my heart really goes out to you. I hope your pain will lessen more and more each day and I hope they find her killer soon so your family can feel a little more at peace.

[Lisa]

I just want to say that I've known Tammy for over 20 years, she was a great friend, mother, and wife!! I know her Ex husband as he was a brother figure to me, I heardthe news and couldn't believe it! I had to call my brother to have him call her ex to verify it!! I hadn't seen her since they separated but she was a close friend that will be missed dearly! I also graduated with her from SM North, which will be having their class reunion this year, I tried to get her to go to the 10 year one with me! But I think we decided that we wouldn't go after all. I hope that if I go this year we can have a momment of silence to remember the good times! As in the day her and her ex were married, the day she did my daughters hair for her first High School dance, the night of her Bacholerette Party! Those are the times that I won't forget, let her rest in peace!

[lw]

We were so sad to hear the news about Tammie. Tammie was my hairdresser when we lived in Shawnee. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family especially her son. Tammie loved her son. Addiction is so evil and destroys so many people. I hope and pray that the police find the person or persons who are responsible for this horrific crime.

[j']

Are we going to hear what happened to Tammy or is everything going to be dropped now?
I've heard no more news stories on her, this happened a few blocks from my house and it's worrysome that the whoever did this is still on the loose.

[James Hart]

Actually, I put up a new post on the case earlier today. It's here.

[SMG]

Lisa-
I was also a 1988 SMN grad with Tammy. As in my above post I mentioned we had grown apart by high school, but I think it is a great idea to honor her memory with a moment of silence at our reunion and I will try to pass this to someone in charge. Anyone who let Tammy into their life - no matter how long or how short the time - knew her laughter, her smile, and desire to live. She was a bright shining light that was taken from us way too soon. To her family and close friends...I know there are no words to bandage your pain, but trust that if she entered your life, she touched your heart and soul. Let justice prevail.

[The J]

This is to everyone posting comments on this blog or any other blog about Tammy. Please do not mention the names of the children, where they are living or going to school or any details about this case that have not been made public. This is an ongoing investigation and you are not only eopardizing this case but the lives of these children. Tammy was murdered and it is very possible that the killer or killers could go after her family. I have had the blogs that contain the kids names removed from this site to protect them and the blog containing information about the case that is not public. Also please remember that this site is being read by the family, which includes the children (nieces, nephews, sons...etc) please remember this when you post. This should be a place to reflect on the beautiful soul of the woman we loved and cared for deeply.

I appreciate your consideration.

Since there was no public funeral, I had to honor tammy in some way, she has been on my mind so much that my husband drove me to the site where this horrible thing happened, when I got there someone had already made a nice cross and laid yellow roses around the area. I can tell you though, it's not somewhere where just anyone knows about, someone knew what they were doing and knew about the place that they did this, and it makes me think that someone lives in the area, I hope they catch them and put them in prison for life, or hey i'm all for the death penalty, an eye for an eye. What a waste of such a precious life.

Good Idea James

[r]

Will there never be an obit for Tammy? I know they held a private graveside funeral but I keep looking for the obit and I guess there isn't going to be one?

[James Hart]

r: I just checked the Star's database -- we haven't received a formal notice from any funeral home yet. I'm not sure if Tammy's remains have been released by the authorities yet. Even if they had, the family might opt for a private service or something like cremation.

[gary barnhart]

i have been watching this page daily hoping to hear they nailed the person who did this, im sure they will it just takes time. i do understand her family's need for privacy at this time, but i would like to pay my respects. I want to talk to our old friends and tell stories, let me tell ya there are so many,good times. We did so much together you name it , she was alot of fun to be around. i can think of several people who i also havnt seen for years who would say the same thing. I dont pay much attention to the articles of her life the past few years writen by some reporter that didnt know Tammy. Like her friends know she wasnt a bad person and its terrable thats all they print. I know its early but i hope sometime there will be place that friends can get together and remember the good times. Her brother was so young when i was around so i didnt know him that well I never knew her husband or son but my heart is with them all. Ive posted my name and I more than welcome anyone to look me up to remember our friend Tammy cochran. To: Tam Rest in peace my dear !!

I was just going through my old pictures, Tammy was at a bbq that we threw about 3 years ago, was one of the last times I saw her, She looked so happy in the picture. I'm so sad that her life ended the way it did. So horribly sad. I guess we just mourn her alone, and with friends that knew her the way we did, not the way the media portray's her. She was a lively, beautiful woman that had such a great spirit.

It's too bad we couldn't post our old pictures of the Tammy we knew. She was such a life line, even still so many years ago, I can't seem to let her go even though the years have passed that I last saw her. I can only imagine what her family is going through, please know you are not alone. Addiction hits all of us in one form or another. I remember Tammy used to take pictures when we were kids. She used to make up dances to songs and we used to laugh and laugh at the histerics of our imagination. This was so long ago, but I cannot help remember what fun and full of life she was. I am so sad she is gone and that I didn't keep in touch. To her parents and immediate family, I am so sorry she isn't a phone call away anymore. I am so sorry there isn't something that we could have done to stop the pathway of the latter years. I wish you Peace and Love, and Healing if at all possible. I also hope for justice. People cannot continue to hurt others for their own malcontent, for their own discomfort. Who ever did this why don't you come forward and be the tough person that you think you are, poba sito. come clean, make amends, admit to any wrong doing and there shall be a pathway that's better for you too, whatever the price. Tammy truly does deserve it. She wasn't just anyone, she was sooo very very loved.

[tammie]

Tami you will never be forgotten. R.I.P my friend. To her family I'm so very sorry for your loss. I keep thinking of Tami before I go to bed at night and I give her a little wink because whoever did this will be caught and payday will come for them. Tami I know you have found peace. You will always be remembered never forgotten and loved forever.

The memorial at the site was left by her former sister-in-law.

are they going to increase the reward anymore. 6000 bucks wont buy much crack if it is gangster's work.

[short timer]

are they going to increase the reward anymore. 6000 bucks wont buy much crack if it is gangster's work.

what a stupid thing to say short timer. what the heck is that supposed to mean?

Short timer is trying to be funny but basically he's saying that probably whoever knew who killed her is involved in drugs/crack/meth or something so they need the money to buy drugs/crack/meth... hey as long as they find out who killed tammy thats all that matters...

[bert]

Tammy's dealer was a black man who she called (KK) who lives in kansas city kansas ,somewhere around parrallel. I have heard her call this dude thousands of time.Hope this will help put the monster away.

Bert I hope you've contacted the authorities on this

[gary b]

thanks bert , maybe its a lead or not. thats prob. the kind of info the cops want if they dont allready have it. this guy at least can create another lead. all other bs aside this women has a family that loves her and they deserve some amount of justice to help them deal with the lose of a mother , daughter and freind. i will allways remember the good times I spent with Tammy as well as the sour lip thing she would do when she was mad. she will be missed !!

Lets just pray that they catch the scum that did this. No matter her past, she didn't deserve to die, let alone die like that. She deserves the same media attention that anyone would and should!!! I think everyone is paying too much attention to her troubled past to remember that she was a beautiful woman with a family. I'm saddened to see that when the media does speak of her they seem to bring up her drug use or prostitution. She was a human being. No one is perfect!! I'm sure that the person or person's that did this horrible crime has a family and would hope that something like this would never happen to them. We keep her family and her son in our prayers daily. Here's to you Tammy: "God grant me the serenity to accept the things that I cannot change, the courage to change the things that I can and the wisdom to know the difference." God bless you...

[j]

I haven't heard anything more about this case, are they still working on it? Any more updates? I pray about Tammy everyday and hope they catch the guy/guys that did this...

Still heartbroken over Tammy's death and hoping against hope that they find who did it soon. She did not deserve this. If you have any info please call the tips hotline.

what was she hooked on?

[Dixie]

To all of you out there that love and miss Tammy we are holding a benefit in her name at Panzons Restaurant 8710 Lackman Road Lenexa, KS 66215 on April 20th, 2008. 11:00am to 3:00pm. This is a great opportunity to visit with those that you would like to see and remember Tammy for who she was, which was a loving mother, daughter, sister and friend. We would love to see all of you there.

[King]

I have been reading peoples posts since the death of Tammy. Tammy was my neices friend
since childhood. I am so glad that someone is doing a benefit for her - unfortunately we will be out of town. Tammy deserves a great memorial. This is a horrific thing that happened to her and her family - I can only hope that April 20 will be a positive event for the family.

[Dixie]

King- We're sorry you can't make it. It will be a wonderful day to celebrate her life and to do what we can to catch the animal(s) who did this to her. Thank you for you kind words.

[Cari Dixon (Henderson)]

I won't be able to make the event at Panzon's to honor Tammy, as I have to be out of town. I'm so sorry to have to miss it. I have been friends with Tammy since 2nd grade. She was such a good person. She always made me laugh. We shared so many good times together and I will never forget her.

I was so blessed to have met Tammy. Beautiful, bright, what a beautiful smile she had... so sorry to have lost her, but so blessed to have met her! - EC from Colorado.

[larry]

The reward is up to $12,000. If anyone would like to contribute, an account has been opened up at Mission Bank, 5201 Johnson Drive, Mission, Kansas 66205 Tammy Cochran Reward Fund. Tammy's Uncle

[heidi]

I have only known Tami for a short time while doing treatment together and i do know Tami was a giving person, funny, and Loved her family deeply. I miss us sitting up telling stories, laughing at each other. I felt like you were a sister to me. you will be missed alot.

[j]

It's nice to read so many fond memories about Tammy. She was a great girl, I have many fond memories myself. Saturday was 1 month, why oh why haven't they found who did this? Someone has got to know something to lead to the person who did this. I just feel like the longer time lapses the more hopeless it looks. Makes me sad.

[larry]

Many comments have asked where Tammy was buried. She was buried at the Johnson County Memorial Gardens on Metcalf. There is a temporary marker and the permanent marker will be laid prior to memorial day.

Tammyy's Uncle

[Kel]

I worked with Tammy for years in the Shawnee salon, and became great friends. I babysat for her son regularly, and spent a lot of time with her. She was a awesome stylist and nail tech. She taught me to do nails and was always so patient with me. She was a beautiful women, mom, daughter, sister & friend. For those of you who did not know her, please don't judge the last few years of her life. Remember when you point fingers there are always 4 pointing back at you. Addiction to anything is so very sad, and until you have been in the thier shoes, DO NOT JUDGE..I just wish her life had not turned out so sad. Thanks for the info of where she is buried, I live out of town now and try to keep up on any info about Tammy's case. I pray everyday the will catch the evil person who did this..
God Bless Tammy forever-

How was the benefit at Panzon's? Do we know how much money was raised? I hope there was a good turn out to honor Tammy. She deserves it.

[larry]

The benefit went great. Panzons was busy the full 4 hours. All television stations showed up. Still counting the contributions. Excellent turnout.

Tammys Uncle

I can't quit, I still come to this spot daily, every other day, weekly, I'm grasping at straws, as each day passes I feel like hope is lost in finding her killer. It's so sad. I can't believe that someone out there, somewhere doens't know who killed Tammy.

[shorttimer]

I see above that someone said she had a drug dealer. I mentioned drugs as a possible connection not to be funny. Remember Nichole Simpson and the alleged drug connection. Threats of that kind had been made and contracts offered. By the way bloggers intentionally helped clog the defense lines so this line could not be investigated. The only tip the defense got was "a friend of the court statement" which was filed for latter use but not needed. This burning a person alive is common in other places like the islands. Also there is right wing associations of persons with a "proprietary point of view" (their words) who have hired thugs who do this kind of thing. One person within this proprietary point of view association had tried to hire one Edwin r Hall to force a person out of the Branson MO area in May of 06.

Their is a Tammy Cochran in the music business these right wingers try to control for political and profit motives. And the singing Tammy Cochran would fit a general discreption of the murdered Tammy only a year older. Cochrans are movers and shakers in Nashville could one of them have crossed one of these right wing King of The World people?

I too come to this sight daily and google you tube and other news sights daily to see if there has been any updates on the murder of Tammy. Someone knows something and is not coming forward and it breaks my heart that her family has not had some kind of closure yet. I pray every day that her killer is brought to justice. Please, if you know something, or know of someone that might, please call the tips hotline today.

[shorttimer]

As I hinted yesterday at 8:13 PM many unconnected and gangs for different motives do these kinds of horrific killings as a lesson to others.

It is this age of terrorism we live in and terrorism skills are being honed as I speak in Iraq and elsewhere.

Witnesses would naturally be afraid to speak fearing the same fate. Increase the reward to 6 figures and u might get some results.

short timer I think your nuts

[shorttimer]

u are either a lazy cop or a mobster or both. the questions i bring up have foundation but i can not name more names for fear of law suits. but maybe i have started people looking and thinking. u can not solve without asking. your comment sounds like a knee jerk jerk reaction from a lazy cop.

I think shortimer is nuts too. Have you contacted the authorities wroking on this case and given them your opinions on who might have been involved?

[UK]

short timer do you even know the tammy cochran we are talking about? NOT THE COUNTRY SINGER TAMMY COCHRAN!!

[shorttimer]

You must be talking about the may 8, 8:24am post second paragraph. there are a lot of blanks i did not want to mention.

But i am involved in a publishing feud and the uncle of the singer Tammy Cochran was an officer in a publishing co involved in that feud so a mistaken ID is possible. There was also a member of the famous Carl Smith family working there with Smith family members all threw MO and East KS.

An Edwin Hall in May 07 was ask to be involved in the feud but refused at that time he tipped me instead. I am considering that the Kelsey Smith murder was connected to that feud and Tammy of Olathe may have been a mistaken id. Many of the criminals hired in this feud are just dumb enough to get caught but the cops are not brave enough to go after the big fish.

I know this sounds to complicated for someone who is not living it. But should Kelsey be related to The Smiths in the music publishing scene, the pair of Olathe murders need looking into as being connected to the feud. Tammy by mistaken id Kelsey as a real target.

Yes I have contacted police but they want the case solved before they can be bothered.

The fact that a simple sex crime of Hall's is kept so top secret should tell you it is not that simple. I want others investigated the police want to keep it simple and easy with as few ripples as possible. Some involved in the feud claim political connections and they want control of the music for political and profit motives. Ever hear of being Dixie Chicked by politicians?

[shorttimer]

correction to may 13, 8:13am post 3rd paragraph may 07 to may 06. just like previous posts by shorttimer.

from information i have some of which i have to hold on to for legal reasons the go or no question is: was Kelsey Smith related to the famous Carl Smith?

i have tried to google Carl Smith did not find anything. i am hoping a friend of Kelsey's might make a connection. i am sure she would have talked about a relative like Carl Smith.

Still miss you Tammy!!! Think about you every damn day.. :(

our thoughts and prayers are with the family always - to you who prey on these stories it's unfortunate - may you find another hobby!!!!and - get help - this is not a three ring circus.. I'm sure you are posting other sights too.

I still check the site almost daily hoping to see that there is news on Tami's murderer. I know the person that killed her will be caught. I pray for her family, especially as her birthday is coming closer. I miss you every day Tami!!!!!

[Bernie]

Was thinking about her today so thought that I would check to see where the police were on this. Sorry and sad to see that there is nothing been posted that states they have had any clues or information to lead to the arrest of the sick person or person's responsibile for her death. Can't really say what I think should be done to them when they find them but sure you can imagine. It was my friend Roman that I work with and I that found her while working at our job. That made for a very sad day . All that we could think of was how hurt her loved one's were going to be when they got this bad new's. We pray that they find those involved and soon. I might add that we both feel that the way some new's channels reported on this showed a lot of disrespect for her loved one's who was suffering a loss. Her past has nothing to do with what had been done to her nor does her past give anyone the right to take her life no matter how she was living as long as she was bringing no harm to other's.It is a shame when something as horrible as this and what was done doesn't get more attention on the news until it is solved.Of course if it isn't happening to you or a loved one of your's seem's people tire of hearing about it. But beware this sick person or person's are still out there and who is to say that this same thing couldn't happen to you or one of your loved one's as long as they are walking the streets thinking they can't get caught. This needs more media attention in my opinion.From what we saw that day we could never feel that what ever sentence is passed on them could be severe enough for their act upon her! Wish we could choose their punishment. Our thought's and prayers go out to all her family and friend's and we hope every day to hear of the arrest being made for her murder! WE also hope that the news media will brodcast on all channels the names and pictures of those involved. As far as some of the reasons that I read for them doing what they did to her, well in my mind there was no reason at all to disrespect her body or her family by doing something that sick! We have all had loved one's pass on,it is a part of life. But it also means a lot to many to be able to see that loved one for one last time and I am sure due to what they did many were robed of seeing her one last time before she was put to rest and that is sad.
We didn't personally know her but she is a person who was loved by her Family and Friend's & they will always suffer her loss and her past didn't play a part in giving anyone the right to take her life! So as others we hope this is solved soon.

Bernie & Roman

[Kel]

To Bernie & Roman
I as well check this everyday & check the news. Tami was a friend of mine & this has devastated me as well as her family & other friends. I no longer live in the KC area, but keep up online with any progress. My heart breaks for you both, because in my mind I can not imagine how bad it was. She was a beautiful, gorgeous woman & had the best smile ever. I did not know her in the life she had led the last few yrs, when I knew her, she was an incredible nail tech & hair stylist. Complete opposite of how she was portrayed in the news. They always tell the bad & never the good..She did not deserve this nor does anyone. I came to KC a few weeks ago, and found her grave & visited the site where you found her. I physically got sick. But until her killer/killers are caught I will never be at peace with this. May God bless you & thank you for helping Tami as much as you could..Happy Early Birthday Tami-Love you

[K]

Happy Birthday Tami!!!! We love you and think of you everyday..RIP

Happy birthday TAMMY!!!

Happy birthday up there tammy, we all still miss you! Happy birthday to your son also...

[UK]

Happy birthday Tammy. RIP

[Cari]

Happy Birthday Tami!!!! I miss you every day and pray for your family every day.

[JR]

Has there been any updates on Tami's case? I also went to high school with Tami and now live in the Pacific Northwest. I found out about what happened only a few weeks ago. I am shocked to hear about what happened and my prayers go out to Tami's family. I hope people don't stop asking "who did this" so police don't let the case go cold.

[James Hart]

JR: As far as I know, there have not been any updates, though Tammy's family keeps adding to the reward every so often. I'm off Friday, but will try to check with Olathe PD to see if there's anything going on next week.

[toto]

Kelsey Smith was related to a former employee of Acuff Rose Opryalnd Music publishing. The singer Tammy Cochran also had a uncle who was a top brass at that publishing co. Edwin Hall was associated with a group who had musicial conflict with this music publisher. Tammy may have been a mistaken id.

I think it's time to turn this case into something bigger - with more publicity. It's almost a year and still no news?

[Kel]

I totally agree. She was a great person, and whoever did this needs to be punished. Someone knows or has heard something I'm sure. Sad how no one wants to help the victims families have a little peace and closer..