For example, John Kasich

A reader can't believe what some people will do to be on TV.

I'm curious about these people who appear on the court room programs and shows like "Wife Swap." (I only watch them when I exercise cause there's nothing else on at that time).

I'm sure the incentive is money but the defendants usually look pretty silly and where does the money come from if there is a judgment? And shows like "Wife Swop" -- where do they come from and again what's the incentive? -- Marvin Finkleston

This question is approaching FAQ status. As Paul Harris and I have discussed from time to time on the radio, there is simply no line that people will not cross if it means the chance to appear on television. Look at it from my perspective: When I appear on TV (rarely) or a national radio program (more often), I will hear from friends and colleagues. Do they have something to say about what I said? No -- they're just commenting on the fact that I'm ON THE AIR, as if this were some incredible achievement.

Now imagine you are an ordinary American, unsophisticated in the behind-the-scenes workings of television. You are probably very impressed by the prospect of you, or anyone you know, appearing on TV. And you are being sweet-talked by a producer who sounds like she (most likely she) has no higher purpose in their day other than getting you to appear on her show.

Once that's accomplished, the rest is academic. And it's accomplished easier than any of us might think, as evidenced by the umpteen-times-daily humiliations and abasements people go through to appear on TV, especially daytime shows.