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January 28, 2009

Comments

Carol

I am a counselor who works among poor whites. This issue is not unique to blacks,its unique to the poor and uneducated. To continually present it as a black issue predominantly is a subtle way of continued stereotyping.
When is someone going to do a documentary on meth addicts who are killing themselves by the thousands in America's nearly all white rural communities. What happens to those children? I'll tell you. Most are still in diapers at age 4 and are often victims of personal dangers from burns in home meth factories.
Black churches and organizations are making significant strides with this issue among their constituents. These "reports" are just so much fodder for extremist and bigots.
Al Roker is a joke and Tiki Barber is an alien. I don't know about the others.
Well...This post will never see the light of day.

J. Williams

I totally agree with Carol. To present the problem as one unique to blacks only does a disservice to everyone.

Do a special encompassing everyone who does it, and play the thing on father's day. Don't play a special on the lack of *black fathers* on black history month. Awful.

Steve

I believe its 2 sides to the story. Some mothers don't want the sas around or don't want to give up custody to the dad and uses child support and the kids against the dad.

gg.w

Locating absentee fathers in the USA is a billion dollar industry.
Lobbyists for fathers who were trapped into realationships and treated unfairly are a big industry.
60% of men in America admit to affairs. Divorce and legalize prostituion is extremely high.
To focus on black men is stereotyping and wrong. I hope I see no more of these shows, and to the producers, No thank you, MSNBC.

Sarah

I don't believe it's completely wrong for this documentary to be on. That being said, I agree that it should not JUST look at African American families and the significant absence of fathers. On the other hand, I understand the producer's reasons as to why this is being presented only to show those families: statistics show that black fathers are more likely than any other group to leave their children behind. I wish this issue would be highlighted more often. Even if it is only African American families being represented in tonight's documentary, at least the issue is being brought to some sort of attention.

Vada Whitaker

Mr. Roker, your story a fathers promise is only a part of who we are. There are many black fathers who are a part of their childrens life or want to be a part of their childrens lives. If you are going to do a story during black history month on the lack of a black fathers involvement, please do a story on the fathers who want to be there and can not.Either because of the mother,the courts or a lack of resourses to pursue a relationship through the courts.

There are many many fathers who are doing an outstanding job in an enviroment filled with adversity as it relates to them having a relationship wuth their children.

Pleased be balanced in your reporting and ask why in disputed custody cases the mother gets primary custody 92 % of the time. Ask why in several studies conducted by the U.S department of education Africian American children who live in single parent households headed by the father achieve higher academically than two parent house holds of any race, why they are less likely to fail a grade, have the lowest rate of teen-age pregancy and incarceration. Yet mothers in disputed cases receive primary custody 92% of the time.

Mr. Roker there are two sides to this story there are many fathers who want to spend time with their children and when given the opportunity they have a wonderful relationships with their children.

Please, use your considerable resoures to tell about single fathers who are in their chidrens school two or three times a week, taking their kids to birthday parties, participating in class room activites , going to doctors appointment, these are wonderful things that many fathers are doing everyday. Fathers are accomplishing these things everday in the face a hostile court, combative mothers and sociatial perceptions that you empowered on your MSNBC special a fathers promise.

My daughter had surgery in 2008. I asked the mother if I could see her after the surgery because it was not scheduled during my custodial time. The mother said no I asked the courts to hear my motion to temporarily modify the order so that I could see my daughter after surgery. The courts would not hear my request. The next time I saw my daughter she wanted to know if Ioved her, because I did not see her while she was sick. There was a daddy daughter dance this past weekend and it was not my custodial time. I asked the mother if she could make an exception so that I could take my daughter to this annual evnet. She said no.

Mr. Roker there are millions of men who have these stories. From one father to another please tell these stories.

I look forward to hearing form you


Vada Whitaker 919-280-4892
Vadawhitaker@netzero.com

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